THE PERSON WHO LEFT YOU DID YOU A FAVOUR

There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you let them walk. I don’t want you to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, and staying attached to you… Just hang up the phone and let them walk. I don’t care how wonderful they are – how attracted you are to them or what they’ve done for you.
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When people can walk away from you let them walk because your destiny is not tied to the person that left. The bible said, “They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would no doubt have continued with us: but they went out, that they might be made manifest that they were not all of us.” (1 John 2:19) People leave you because they’re not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can’t make them stay.
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Let them go!
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It doesn’t mean the person who left was a bad person. It just means that persons part in your story is over. And you have to know when people’s part in your story is over so you won’t keep trying to raise the dead. You’ve got to know when it’s dead.
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You’ve got to know when it’s over. Let me tell you something. I’ve got the gift of good-bye. It’s the tenth spiritual gift. I believe in good-bye. It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He’ll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it. Stop begging people to stay.
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Let them go!
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Nothing just happens. There’s a purpose and reason behind everything. If they walked away it’s no accident. If they left you it’s no accident. You tried to make it work and it didn’t work it’s no accident. Accept it as the will of God. So wash your face. Clap your hands. Do your dance and keep going. A goodbye is a gift. Meaning whatever left is God making room for you to receive something better; no need to stress and be frustrated. Stop begging people to stay, let them go!–ANITA

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