Effective Ways to Make Others Feel Important

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  • Use their name
  • Express  gratitude
  • Do more listening than talking: Look at them when they talk, Pay attention to the things they like and give compliments, maybe in their appearances, job and other accomplishments.
  • Be sincere in your praise.
  • See Potentials: Encourage them more than criticizing, tell them you believe in them. Comfort them even after a failure, Ask them to teach you something and offer help within your means and capability.
  • Talk more about them than about you.
  • Give Generously: this can simply be your time and if you are blessed to give more, do so. Never limit yourself
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  • Be Affectionate: This can be literally giving them a pat in their back, or a hug
  • Do things together by inviting them to church, game, shopping, giving them a ride and even an invite for dinner
  • Be authentically interested.
  • Share yourselves: This can be your honest opinion about things, or challenge you overcame that might be beneficial to them.
  • Show you care.
  • Be the person that make others feel special. Be known for your kindness, sympathy and grace.





Infuse your life with action. Don’t wait for it to happen. Make it happen. Make your own future. Make your own hope. Make your own love. And whatever your beliefs, honor your creator, not by passively waiting for grace to come down from upon high, but by doing what you can to make grace happen… yourself, right now, right down here on Earth. Bradley Whitford

You are not for everyone – and that’s ok

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The world is filled with people who, no matter what you do, will point blank not like you. But it is also filled with those who will love you fiercley. They are your people. You are not for everything and that’s OK. Talk to the people who can hear you.

Don’t waste your precious time and gifts trying to convince them of your value, they won’t ever want what you’re selling. Don’t convince them to walk alongside you. You’ll be wasting both your time and theirs and will likely inflict unnecessary wounds, which will take precious time to heal. You are not for them and they are not for you; politely wave them on and continue along your way. Sharing your path with someone is a sacred gift; don’t cheapen it by rolling yours with the wrong people.

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1.True love cannot be found where it truly doesn’t exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does.

 2. Forgiveness is the final form of love.

3. I never knew how to worship until I knew how to love.

4.You don’t love a woman because she’s beautiful; she is beautiful because you love her.

5. The first duty of love is to listen.

6.Age does not protect you from love but love to some extent love protects you from age.

7.A heart that loves is always young.

8. Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.

9. Don’t forget to love yourself.